Honoring my Pearls

Water colored Pearls are how God can use the tragic, the shameful and the less-than-perfect circumstances of life to create something beautiful.

I’m thankful for the pearls represented in this room, for you each have contributed to a beautiful me. “These older women must train the younger women…” I’m grateful for the seasoned pearls (the Sophias and Phoebes in my life) who live in a way that honors God. Sophia (wisdom) cries out in the streets and encourages me to gain deeper understanding. Mom, Grandma, Shakelle, Mrs. Val, Mrs. Eve and Mrs. Nola…you are my Sophias because you teach me what is good, how to love my future husband and children. I celebrate your wisdom!

Phoebe was a devout leader in the church. Lori, Adele, Nesha…you are my Phoebe because you are teachers of the faith by how you live. Like a trainer in the Olympics, Phoebe was known for standing by in case a believer was in need. Shanta, Lashawn, Monica, you live wisely and pure; you work in your homes and model submission to your husbands. “Then they will not bring shame on the word of God” and that’s what makes you Sophias and Phoebes in my life.

I’m grateful for the pearls who have been formed alongside me (the Priscillas and Elizabeths in my life).  You are the” iron that sharpens my iron”. Priscillas like Casondra, Kitty, Nikkea and Jarvis…you are women known for your wisdom, tact, courage and love. As Priscilla was a partner in ministry to Paul; so have you been to me. Crystal, Netta and Brandy, you are women who are respected for your age, wisdom and character as Priscilla was. Elizabeth means “God is generous”. Quitta, Candace you are representations of God’s generosity and represent respectable women. Tiffany, Kathryn, Shani and Winter…your great faith and trust in God will be rewarded for it has left me in humble amazement as it did for Mary when Elizabeth exemplified great faith.

Kim, “what you have heard in the presence of many witnesses, entrust to faithful wo[men] who will also be able to teach others.” What rare friendships when one generation is bound to another by the cords of love. For this is the relationship Ruth had with Naomi. As for my Ruths; women who exhibit poise, Drew, Leah, Sly and Brina…your quiet fidelity will leave footprints on the lives of others. You are marked with love and loyalty as was Ruth. Much like Ruth, Sasha, Dawn, Kendra…your determination, humility, and serenity cause you to calmly submit to His Divine will.

“Having so fond an affection for you, [I] was well-pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God but also [my] own life, because you had become very dear to [me]”. Lydia wasn’t always a believer, yet when she heard the Word…she was hungry for an experience with God. Such seeking women, passionate in spirit and open to teaching, Linda, Mya, Cintel…you model the heart of Lydia. Diligent in business affairs yet balanced in worship to God, hospitable and set apart, Cyre, Lashon and Qua (Jackie)…I adore the Lydia spirit you possess.

Its’ commanded that we “love each other with genuine affection and I really do. Therefore tonight, I take delight in honoring you”.